Why Chinese weddings are so expensive

Chinese weddings are grand events that often include lavish celebrations, a large number of guests and a variety of traditional rituals. For many Chinese families, the wedding is an important and significant event, and significant funds are spent on its organization. In this article, we look at why Chinese weddings are often so expensive, what traditions and customs affect costs, and how the approach to wedding celebrations in China has changed in recent years.

1. Traditional Expectations and Customs

1.1 Wedding banquet and number of guests

One of the main factors affecting the cost of a Chinese wedding is a wedding banquet. In China, it is customary to arrange large celebrations with several hundred guests. Sometimes not only close relatives are present at the wedding, but also friends, colleagues and even acquaintances.

- A wedding banquet in China is often held in luxury restaurants, and the cost of one table can be quite high. In large cities, such events can cost tens of thousands of yuan. The more guests, the higher the cost of the banquet, as the Chinese try to treat everyone invited with high-quality dishes and drinks.

1.2 Gifts and Gift Exchange

The tradition of exchanging gifts is another factor that increases the cost of a wedding. In China, the bride and groom often receive generous gifts from relatives and friends, which can include money, jewelry and even property. The bride's family also expects the groom to bring a bride gift with him, which may include money or other valuables.

- The amount of gifts, especially in major cities, can be significant, and this increases the overall cost of wedding celebrations.

1.3 Traditional Customs and Wedding Ceremonies

Traditional Chinese wedding rites can also be quite expensive. Among them are gifts from the groom and his family for the bride, donations to parents, redemption of the bride, as well as rituals related to the veneration of ancestors. These ceremonies require the purchase of certain goods, such as a wedding outfit (traditionally a red dress for the bride), wedding decorations and other symbolic items.

- These rituals can add extra costs to the wedding, as each detail must be perfectly executed according to tradition.

2. Modern social expectations

2.1 Pursuit of Luxury and Status

In recent decades, especially in China's big cities, weddings have been perceived not only as a family holiday, but also as an opportunity to demonstrate status and success. Young people and their families often seek a wedding that will impress guests and reflect their social situation.

- This leads to increased costs for the wedding venue, photo shoot, decor, lighting and sound equipment, and the organization of additional entertainment programs such as celebrity performances or music shows.

2.2 The Influence of Western Wedding Traditions

With the development of globalization and the growing popularity of Western cultures, many Chinese weddings began to incorporate elements borrowed from Western traditions, such as wedding rings, ring exchange plateaus, and wedding photographs. This adds additional costs to photographers, videographers and designers.

- The inclusion of Western elements in Chinese weddings often increases the cost of organizing a celebration, since wedding dresses, jewelry and other attributes often cost a lot of money.

2.3 Education and Career Ambitions

In some cases, a wedding becomes not only a personal event, but also a way for young people to demonstrate their educational achievements and career successes. Young people, especially those from wealthy families, can organize grand wedding events to demonstrate their worth and influence.

- This desire to stand out from other people in society also contributes to the rise in wedding prices.

3. High costs for wedding accessories

3.1 Wedding dress and outfits

One of the most important aspects of a Chinese wedding is the bride's wedding dress. Unlike Western traditions, where the bride usually wears a white dress, in China the traditional color for the bride is red. But modern Chinese brides often choose multiple dresses - one for the ceremony and one for the banquet.

- In this regard, wedding dresses can cost from several thousand to tens of thousands of yuan. High-quality dresses from famous designers or custom dresses significantly increase costs.

3.2 Photo Shoots and Video Shooting

Modern Chinese weddings are unthinkable without professional photography and video filming, which are an important part of the wedding process. Wedding photos have gained huge popularity, and many couples spend large sums on shooting in different locations (from studio filming to photo shoots in exotic places).

- The quality of photography and video shooting plays a big role in preserving memorable moments, and this can be a significant additional expense.

4. Current Changes and Trends

4.1 Scale-up and budget weddings

In recent years, especially among young people, there has been a tendency to reduce the scale of weddings and reduce costs. Instead of traditional large-scale celebrations, more and more Chinese couples choose intimate weddings with a small number of guests and minimal costs. There is also a trend for budget weddings organized in less expensive places.

- This is also due to a change in public opinion, where the emphasis is no longer placed on the "indicative" wedding, but on the intimacy and solitude of the ceremony.

4.2 Technologies and Online Platforms

With the development of technology, many couples began to use online platforms to organize a wedding. This makes it possible to reduce the cost of physical presence, as well as choose more profitable offers for booking seats and services.

Conclusion

Chinese weddings have become not only an important family event, but also a significant social phenomenon. The cost of a wedding in China often depends on tradition, family expectations and modern aspirations to demonstrate success. Despite the high costs, weddings in China remain an important part of the culture, and every detail of the celebration is considered not only a celebration of love, but also a sign of respect for ancestors and traditions.